A thesis: We can commit ourselves to writing (yes, even blog writing) as a way of commiting ourselves to beneficial change, for ourselves and for the world.
And now for a ramble: I’m thinking of this in part because of the exchange of comments from yesterday’s item about Joss Whedon, which is already shaping my behavior. Most of my blog reading tends toward the ephemeral, but Whedon’s post now has me actively taking dead aim at the patriarchy. I’m not going to take it down by myself, but I’ll have plenty of help.
Also leading me to think of this: the piles of papers, books, and notebooks surrounding my laptop on my desk, which, as you may recall, has been a persistent problem for me. Now that I’m reading back through my blog archive, I’m struck again by the insights in the piece on “The WHY of clutter” I linked to here. This one, in particular, hits home:
- “This is what is most likely holding you back: you don’t know what you want.”
So, a thank you to my past blog-writing self for digging up something I needed to hear. The most important ideas come back around to us again and again. Just last night I enountered the same idea in the ChangeThis manifesto of Tim Ferriss:
The Low-Information Diet
Ferriss is the author of The 4-Hour Workweek, in which he discusses the transformation of his own life from overwork to abundant living. His blog is definitely worth reading, and I’m looking forward to reading his book as well. One of the most trenchant points he makes in “The Low-Information Diet” is this:
“If you don’t define your goals clearly, everything seems important and requires action. If you define your goals clearly, especially your single most critical goal, almost all things are of little or no importance and few things require action.”
So at least on this one tiny point, the process of blogging is shoving my nose down into a big, steaming hunk of reality. I’m changing my ways, at least slightly, even as I’m typing this. Focusing on goals automatically aids clarity in our lives. Focusing on goals makes it far easier to eliminate distractions. While I’ve been writing this, I’ve been sweeping through my browser bookmarks and my RSS feed reader to get rid of a lot of things that clutter my mind unnecessarily. Hold on a sec . . .
. . . Okay, I think I just dumped about a dozen feeds from my reader. I’ll come back to it again later today and make another cull. Every time I cut something out of my life — prune something back — I find that I have more room for my ideas and my own best impulses to come out. Of course, my lesser impulses have a way of creeping back in, over and over, which is why I once again have such a stack of clutter on my desk.
So, dear readers, if you’ve followed this ramble all this way, let me just lay my cards on the table and tell you about the big change I’m after in my behavior, and by extension in my career: I intend to be an influential writer of books. Well, I also want to be wise, beloved, and well-paid writer of books — and sexy, too, while we’re at it. Mind you, I’m in no rush, and anyway it will be a while before the advances and royalties start rolling in. Meanwhile (and that meanwhile could stretch into years), the jobs I have now are rewarding, each in its own way, and some of those jobs even have finished books as their express goals.
So, there’s a behavior change for you: Owning up to what’s most important to me. Maybe that shred of public clarity will help my writing here and help my writing of books. (And if you’re in a sharing mood, advice, encouragement, and any other comments on the path to influential writerdom will be much appreciated.)
So now let’s see how this clarity helps me get these damn piles of paper off my desk . . .