This blog has issued forth, with some periods of inactivity, for more than a year. Many if not most of its readers are friends of mine. This surely is true for its regular readers, who are few in number. The audience has grown across the year, but only slightly.
Now, like every hard-bitten writer, I believe I have interesting things to say to you — things you will find so interesting that you can’t help but come back for more, and tell all of your friends that they ought to be joining you and me in the conversation here. But how well do I live up to my conceit, here in the actual posts I write? How consistently am I giving something worth coming back for? My own opinions on this don’t mean much, because I can look at the numbers of visitors — one-timers and repeaters — and determine that the value this blog has generated has been, well, let’s say okay. At best.
In the long run, I hope to give you community. I read John Scalzi’s blog because I’ve come to feel as though I know him, even though we’ve only exchanged a couple of e-mails in person. But I’ve read his blog for more than a year, and I’ve voiced my own opinions in his comment threads with the like-minded (and otherwise) folks there. I’ve read some of his books, too, and so I feel even more invested in the community he’s built up. If I thought he were just doing it as a ploy to sell more books, I wouldn’t be interested. But it seems, instead, that while he’s happy to sell more books, he really wants to interact with a readership. He wants to exist in a community, and he’s put in the time and effort to recruit members of his own community. Similar impulses seem to drive Teresa and Patrick Nielsen Hayden, who have gone to great lengths to promote community commentary at Making Light.
Community, on this blog, will come when it comes. For now, it’s lifetime count on comments, across all posts, is something under 100. If you’ve been waiting for the right time to start commenting, please be assured that the right time is now. Every comment — even those that disagree with me or take me to task — is like a gift to me, because I want to build a community around my own themes.
For now, what I can give you is the fruit of my own experience, reading, and thinking around those themes. In other words, I want to give you the gift of what I’ve learned so far. Thus this blog’s new name.
It would be much simpler for me to keep a sharp-edged blog about, say, developments in the high-tech business world. But the world doesn’t need another Scoble, Winer, or Searls, and anyway those guys do what they do much better than I could. I have a newcomer’s naivete — hopefully beneficial — when it comes to marketing, but there’s no reason to look to me for marketing wisdom ahead of Kawasaki or Godin. I lift weights and I run, but I’m no expert on training. I read books and I’m getting a doctorate, so I have my own ideas about scholarship and the academic world, but I’m no Holbo or Bitch. Et cetera.
But what I can give you — some that all of these worthies cannot — is the fruit of what I have learned so far. My friends seek out my advice and tell me it’s useful; I score off the charts for intuition; my mind gravitates naturally to the big picture. So I find that, when I immerse myself in a subject, I make connections that others don’t.
Hey, I’m a million miles from perfect. My follow-through stinks, and despite my own advice, my habits of mind are not what they should be. But I do like people and I do want to connect and help when and how I can. Encouragement comes easy to me.
So here’s a habit we can build together. I’m going to spend less time collecting miscellaneous thoughts here, and more time putting into words what I’ve learned about life so far. I have points of view, hopefully useful ones, on how the world does work and how it might work better, not in some wonk’s paradise but in the here and now with the stubborn application of common sense. (There’s my nod to this blog’s old title.) My thoughts often center on our environments — the physical and social and political ones around us, as well as the psychological environments within our own heads. I will keep trying to puzzle through these, whether the matter at hand is business, careers, health, “the environment”, or what have you. I hope you will let me into a little corner of your life and lend your own voice to teach me something better for tomorrow.
All I’m talking about is trying to figure out how to live life. No big whoop. Join me, won’t you?
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More on the theme of giving gifts:
Robert Paterson on The Gift Economy in Action
Hugh Macleod: Three Thoughts on Customer Engagement
Kathy Sierra on Loveocracy
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